In Western society post-partum mental health issues are on the rise; parents, especially in big cities, are struggling. It is a reminder that the old saying, "It takes a village to raise a child" is more relevant than ever. The supportive, close-knit communities that once shared the joys and burdens of child-rearing have dispersed, leaving new parents at risk of feeling isolated and marginalized.
Historically, religious communities offered robust support networks for new families, not only providing spiritual guidance but also social and practical assistance. With the decline of these institutions, new parents, particularly in urban areas, now lack the communal support that once made child-rearing a collective effort rather than a solitary one.
We need to remember that early parenthood can be overwhelming and isolating, and this is often exacerbated by inadequate paternity leave policies. The absence of social support during this critical period can lead to post-partum depression and anxiety.
Research shows that children thrive when surrounded by a strong network, and parents function better when they are not raising children in isolation. It is clear that accessible support is essential, to offer parents emotional and practical help, advice from older generations, and a sense of belonging.
It is no surprise that in large cities the concept of a supportive village has been overshadowed by the popular pursuit of economic success. High-rise apartments and bustling streets, although symbols of progress, neglect the needs of new parents in a hyper-competitive society.
If we are to rebuild the village we need to support new parents, therefore investing in our society's future. Recognising child-rearing as a collective responsibility is crucial to create a more compassionate and connected world. It takes a village not only to raise a child but also to ensure the mental health and well-being of new parents. Let's not abandon the wisdom of this old phrase in the name of progress.
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